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Have A Positive Effect On People.

on July 9, 2012

I have had an issue lately with people being negative. It takes the same amount of effort to be kind as it does to be hateful.  As quick as you can find a flaw in someone you can find a positive. You don’t have to like everything about someone and you don’t have to agree with them. Just accept the fact that everyone is different and its okay to be different. People are not here on this planet to be what you want. They are here to live their own life and find what works for them. They have a right to happiness and cutting them down to make yourself  feel or look better is childish and mean. Dont do it!

We are all on different levels. Some of us are highly educated,others are not. Some have a strong mechanical ability,others don’t.  Some of us are wealthy others are trying to keep food on the table and just get by.   Accept them the way they are and be helpful where you can. Sometimes taking a few minutes to explain something to someone or posting a video so that they can see how something works can make a huge difference to a person who is frustrated and can’t get things to work. Maybe you can help out by sending someone an atty or little eliquid to get them through till they get some money together to order something. We can all help in some small way. Even just asking how they feel when you know someone has been ill or depressed can make a big difference in how they feel today. It doesn’t take a huge effort to make a huge difference in someones day. Just be nice! A little kindness goes a very long way.

The other thing is the other side of the coin. The people who are always needy. They constantly post about not having anything. They want everything and are jealous of everyone. Dont feed this. Help the people who genuinely need help. Dont get caught up in the constant complaining and mooching that goes on. If we don’t feed the drama and the need for things and attention maybe they will stop doing it. Thats a negative. The poor me’s don’t cut it with me. If you have a need on a daily basis and are always asking for expensive kits and mods then you need to stop. Get a better job or learn to be happy with what you have. These people usually have more than most and still want more.They don’t feel bad for anyone else.They dont understand true need and they take help away from people who truly need it by sucking up all the extra in the community until there is nothing left to fill the true needs. You can just knock the greedy behavior off. If you have batteries and liquid,let it go. You dont need a free $80 mod. You need to save up and buy one like everyone else. These people always claim to be so helpful but you never see it happen. They are not giving in the community.They always have outside people they claim to be giving to. Why not invite these people to join in so we can meet them and help them. I’m not giving you enough supplies to help 20 invisible friends. Have them join and we will help them one at a time. I want to give it to them directly.OK?

So that’s it,we all have something to offer.A little assistance with the tech stuff,a small donation to keep someone vaping or just a kind word where it’s needed. It doesn’t cost much,if anything to make a big difference in someones day. Make an effort to spread some positive energy today. Take a breath and stop yourself from making a negative impact. Do the right thing and cause a smile instead of a hurt. I’m not asking for much. Just a small tiny effort. If we all do this it will have a huge impact on our already wonderful community. Lets keep the positive energy flowing and start a chain reaction.



One response to “Have A Positive Effect On People.

  1. I totally agree with your views here, good for you.

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